Verycherry, 43

Then you own everything...

I've always known exactly what and who I am, and I am not conflicted in the least about it. I am a submissive who thrives with structure and whose ultimate goal is to please the Dominant with whom I am engaging. Honesty is imperative (oviously with boundaries respected), and as long as we have built that trust and respect, I will do everything I can to live up to the expectations given to me.

I crave control, specifically not having it. I am in a high leadership role and am in complete control there at all times. I make all the decisions in my professional and personal life, but in so many ways, it's just a role I have to play. What I want and need is to remove that mask and let someone else take over. A lot of trust is needed ot go there, but surrendering it all to someone else feel like...being able to breathe again.That intensity isn't for everyone, but it is who I am and what I am seeking.
This doesn't have to be in person. I can function well at a distance if it's the right connection. It also doesn't need to be labeled into oblivion. I just want to build something that works for us, whatever that is. And to be direct? I'm too experienced to fall for the games of new people flocking in and claiming titles when they don't have a clue what they're doing, saw the fuss over sh*tty movies, and thought this is an easy way to have a k*nky f*ck. I can get that anywhere. So can you. So if that's all you want, I'm not the one. Like I said in the title, anyone can own a body for a night. I want you to own more. If you don't crave control and like actual protocols within this dynamic, I'm not your girl. But if you're respectful, genuine, know who you are, and want a connection with your submissive that creates a need in her to please and obey you like she needs oxygen? We should probably talk.