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A free online dating & social networking community site for singles into BDSM. Are you looking to meet others into dominant / submissive roleplay? If you enjoy bondage and discipline,or your relationships typically involve some elements of sadism and masochism, then BDSM Passions is the site for you. Sign up and enjoy free BDSM personals, BDSM chat, message boards & email features.

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A group for people who enjoy being in a submissive role in a BDSM relationship. It can include activities such as bondage, humiliation, and submission.
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Why You Should Join BDSM Passions

BDSM Passions is one of the few BDSM community sites that is FREE and works as either a BDSM Dating App* or a BDSM Social Networking site (or as a hybrid of both), giving you the opportunity to find others in the BDSM community to connect with around shared interests. It is really up to you as to whether you are looking for friendship, romance, dating, love or just others who you might connect with for really any personal reason of your own. There aren't many BDSM sites that provide free text chat, audio chat and streaming webcam chat, which allows you to know for sure that the person you are chatting with is actually the person in the account they have listed.

Aside from joining just because you share some things in common with other members, BDSM Passions has been online as part of a large network of sites that was started in the early 2000's. Not only is the site not going anywhere, it is part of a network with millions of member profiles with a large number of members who have been part of the network for well over a decade. This site and the connected sites are constantly being updated with new designs and new features to make everything easier to use and to provide more functionality for existing members. Since the site is free to use (along with any of the other sites in the network you decide to add into your account), many members maintain their accounts in the network due to the friendships they have made over time... while being able to spend their money on other dating apps that charge for the features the BDSM Passions Dating App* provides for free. So, join this site and then add the other sites in the network that match your passions in life!

*BDSM Passions works as a BDSM Dating App due to a responsive design allowing use on mobile devices via any browser with no download required.

BDSM is (and always should be) 100% consensual between two or more adults. Since domination and submission are key components in BDSM roleplay, all members are HIGHLY encouraged to limit any activity to only those people they have developed trust with. BDSM Passions encourages members to only engage in SSC (Safe, Sane & Consensual) behavior. Do not put yourself at risk. Please play safe, and always have a safeword defined ahead.