Vaulder, 37
currently offline
Tempe, AZ, USA
VAULDER'S MEMBERSHIP AWARDS (Beta)



How do you avoid suggestive terms in a kink group?
I'm interested in the bondage and dominat..., not so much the pain
About Me
Gender
Male, Cisgender Male
Orientation
Straight
Height
5'06"
Weight
210 lbs
Hobbies & Interests
acting, baking, board games, chess, comic books, computers, cooking & recipes, cosplay, cruises, dancing, fleamarkets, history, internet, killing zombies, larp, magic, movies, music, nature, naturism, nudism, photography, puzzles and brain teasers, reading, robotics, sewing, shopping, target practice, television, travel, video games, writing
Body Type
a few extra pounds
Movies
action, animation, classics, comedy, drama, fantasy, horror, indie, psychological thrillers, romance, romantic comedy, sci-fi
Orientation
Straight
Eye Color
brown
Hair Color
a little gray, dark brown
Ethnicity
Caucasian
Relationship
divorced, separated
Have Kids
yes
Education Level
Bachelor's Degree
Profession
Computer related / Hardware, Medical / Health Services
Income level
that's private
Do you smoke?
no - will not date a smoker
Do you drink?
socially
I currently live
alone
Socially, I am
a couch potato, anti-social, better in small groups, comic relief, flirt, home body, loner, shy at first, but warm up quickly
Political Views
independent, liberal, not interested in politics
Food Related
Always Dieting, Candy is a Food Group, Right?, Carnivore, Chinese, Chocoholic, Comfort, Eat Out Frequently, Fast Food, Fine Dining, Italian, Junk Food Junkie, Lactose Intolerant (am I sharing too much?), Mexican, Omnivore, Soul Food
Personality
artistic, eccentric, flirt, free spirit, fun loving, geek, intellectual, introvert, liberal, loner, lover, nerd, romantic
Individuality
actor, beard, goatee, nudist, stache
Religious Views
Agnostic
I'm looking for
conversation, dating, fun, miss right, miss right now, relationship, romance, soulmate, the yin to my yang
My Sign
i don't believe in zodiac signs, i was born in december
Pets
No pets currently (but like them)
Gender
Cisgender Male, Male
Music
Alternative Rock, Choir, Classical, Hard Rock, Hip Hop, Indie, Jazz, Jazz-Fusion, Pop, Punk, Relaxation and Meditation, Rock, Soul
Hair Style
short hair, straight
Fitness & Sports
bowling, cycling, dancing, hiking, martial arts, rock climbing, swimming, walking, yoga, archery, baseball
Health Related
chiropractic, minor dietary issues, pro-vaccine
Languages
English, Spanish, The Language of Love
Myers-Briggs®
INTP
My Preferred Pronouns
He/Him/His
Love Language
Physical Touch, Words of Affirmation
Highly Sensitive Type
Fantasy-Prone
High Sensation Seeker
Boredom Susceptibility, Novelty Seeking
My Photos

My Friends
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My Groups(8)
Bondage
3401 membersA group for people who enjoy physical and psychological restraints for sexual pleasure. Activities include tying, binding, and restraining with rope, straps, cuffs, and other objects.
Exhibitionist
1064 membersA group for people who get aroused by exposing their body or sexual activities to others. It can include activities such as streaking, flashing, and having sexual encounters in public or semi-private spaces.
Voyeur
941 membersA group for people who get aroused by watching others engage in sexual activities without their knowledge or consent. It can include activities such as spying, peeping, and using hidden cameras.
Dominant
1690 membersA group for people who enjoy being the active partner in a BDSM relationship. It can include activities such as bondage, humiliation, and domination.
Master
1345 membersA group for people who enjoy being in control of a BDSM relationship. It can include activities such as bondage, humiliation, and dominance.
Top
551 membersA group for people who enjoy being the active partner in a BDSM relationship. It can include activities such as bondage, humiliation, and domination.
Handcuffs
1491 membersA group for people who enjoy using handcuffs for sexual pleasure. It can include activities such as bondage, humiliation, and role-playing.
Sexual Roleplay
1474 membersA group for people who enjoy roleplaying scenarios for sexual pleasure. It can include activities such as bondage, humiliation, and role-playing.
BDSM Sites
BDSM Dating/Bondage Dating
- Bondage
- Alternative Personals
- BDSM Singles
- Fetish Date Link
- Alt.com
- Get It On
- Bondage Dating
- BDSM Date Link
- Find A BDSM Lover
BDSM Information
Miscellaneous BDSM Sites
Webcam Sites
Personals / Chat Sites
Fun Sites