Themusician86, 39

Hello! I'm very new to the b d s m community. I'm 39 years old, a virgin, and never really considered that I'd be a part of this community, to be honest.

In recent years, I've done some soul searching, and had to go through some difficult things in life, which opened my mind up a lot more. After breaking up with the love of my life in 2023, I took time to really work on understanding myself, my needs, and what it is exactly that I am looking for.

Right now, I am looking to talk to people, and find answers. I have so much to explore and work to understand, and it's quite scary.

I know for a fact that I am Asexual, and that my ideal relationship would be long-distance, over the internet only. I'm not interested in anything physical. It's the mental part of b d s m, namely, being submissive, that seems to draw me in. I'm fascinated by subspace, and want to experience it. I want to know what it's like to be cared for by a gentle person, who can be there for me emotionally, as I grow and go along in my journey of life.

All of this is veyr real, and I am very serious about this.

I look forward to meeting new people, and making new friends, among other things. Thank you for reading my words. I hope to hear from you!