Tenderntru, 61

Spank me? Let me begin by stating that my life is awesome, and I am enjoying every precious moment of it! I am completely happy and content on my own terms, and do not require a relationship to feel good about who I am. However, finding a special lady to share my grand adventure with would certainly be the proverbial icing on the cake. Perhaps it would add a sense of completeness to my life.

Perhaps it would be wise to state what I am not, and then you will get a better picture of me with what is left. Firstly, I am not a liar or a cheat. My saying this does not make it so, but I do believe in personal integrity, and I do not indulge in any behavior which may compromise that. In my personal case, what you see is what you get. I am what I am, and I am comfortable in my own skin. Secondly, I am not, nor do I make any pretense about being tall, dark, or handsome. Truth be told, I am not a very tall man, and my looks are merely average at best. Thirdly, I am not rich, and probably will not be anytime soon. However, I do pay my own way in life, and take pride in my work.

What are some qualities I do possess? For starters I am very intelligent. Not merely head smart, but spiritually and emotionally smart as well. I value intelligent conversation, yet I also have an intense sense of humor. I love to laugh, and do so often. Along with intelligence and a sense of humor I also have some hard earned maturity. I am a veteran who served many years in life's trenches, and was fortunate to be able to learn from my mistakes. I am now well versed in what not to say or do, and am no longer afraid to show my true feelings.

The greatest gift I have gleaned from my life is the gift of True Romance. Not the generic kind you see in some movies, or even the preconceived ideas about romance we all have. No, I am referring to the kind of romance that stands the test of time, the life blood of any strong relationship. From simple acts of kindness, or an unexpected kiss, or simply being there