Temptresstea, 42

curious I am a strong independant woman, but I often feel like a child. I have a very hard exterior, and often demasculate men. My only purpose in this is to show them I am fine without them... deep down, I feel a need to be put in my place, but my pride and stubborness won't allow any such nonsense. I have been single for 5 years now, and dare any man to hit on me. I have read several b d s m stories, and the ones about a female submissive, being trained and punished, and forced to grow into the beautiful creature she was meant to be.... drive me wild! I, however, am more of a take charge kind of girl, my way or the highway... it is how I survive, but not what makes me hot. Obviously - I am confused!