I'm a 42 year old writer and Daddy Dom from the Northeast, looking for an online only dynamic. Married but looking ethically.
More than anything I like helping pretty girls grow and become a person we're both proud of.
I believe in the importance of self-care. Life is stressful and everyone needs an outlet to unwind. I have a massive praise kink and I want to give you sincere positivity.
I want to become a person you depend on and that earns trust and deep devotion.
What a lot of people get wrong with b d s m is that it's all very haphazard. I believe in having a methodology and sticking to it.
I've been thinking about who I am and what I want for 25 years. I'm confident that my approach works.
We need an icebreaker! I'm obsessed with discovering new movies and music. Tell me about a piece of media that you find ----- (even if it wasn't necessarily meant to be.)
Structuredfun, 42
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About Me
Gender
Cisgender Male
Orientation
Straight
Height
5'9"
Weight
220 lbs
Eye Color
Brown
Hair Color
A little gray
Ethnicity
Caucasian
My Sign
I was born in april
Hair Style
Buzz cut
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