Freedom is over-rated I love the whole aspect of bondage and dominat... as well as the toys also the role playing that follows with S&M.
I believe that the b d s m way of life is not just about intimacy its about who you are as if you don't really belong to the group there are simply some things you can not do thus you are restricting yourself greatly.
To me the lifestyle is similar to setting free a caged bird who takes flight in the open skies feeling the wind between your wings and have total freedom.
Stefanomonroe, 35
currently offlineSt. Catherine, JAMAICA
STEFANOMONROE'S MEMBERSHIP AWARDS (Beta)
Freedom is over-rated
About Me
Gender
Male
Orientation
Gay
Height
5'09"
Weight
150 lbs
Hobbies & Interests
comic books, computers, cooking & recipes, dancing, gardening, internet, magic, manga, movies, music, naturism, photography, pole dancing, reading, shopping, television, travel, video games, wine tasting, writing
Body Type
average, slender
Movies
action, comedy, drama, horror, indie, steamy, romance, romantic comedy, sci-fi
Orientation
gay
Eye Color
black
Hair Color
black
Ethnicity
African American
Relationship
dating someone special
Have Kids
no - definitely want them though
Education Level
some college
Profession
Computer related / Hardware, Education / Academic Research, Entertainment / Media, Executive / Management, Food Service, Hospitality / Travel, Internet
Income level
$100,000+
Do you smoke?
no - will not date a smoker
Do you drink?
socially, wine
I currently live
family and friends visit often, with a significant other
Socially, I am
a couch potato, better in small groups, flirt, shy at first, but warm up quickly
Political Views
not interested in politics
Food Related
Caribbean, Chinese, Comfort, Fast Food, Fine Dining, French, Indian, Italian, Junk Food Junkie, Soul Food, Spicy, Vegan, Vegetarian
Personality
activist, conservative, dominatrix, extrovert, fashionista, flirt, fun loving, geek, intellectual, introvert, loner, lover, nerd, professional, romantic, tree hugger
Individuality
beard, piercings
Religious Views
Christian
Miscellaneous
HIV+
I'm looking for
conversation, friends only, penpal, travel companion
My Sign
i was born in december, sagittarius : nov. 22-dec. 21
Pets
Fish, No pets currently (and not interested in any)
Gender
Male, Not Sure
Music
Techno, Trance, Classical, Dance, Gospel, Hip Hop, House, Jazz, Opera, Pop, Punk, R and B, Reggae, Ska, Soul
Hair Style
shaved head
Fitness & Sports
bodybuilding, cycling, dancing, diving, hiking, jogging, martial arts, pilates, pole dancing, swimming, tai chi, walking, weightlifting, working out, wrestling, yoga
Health Related
acupuncture, faith healing, herbalism, therapy
Looking for
Hobbies & Interests
comic books, computers, cooking & recipes, dancing, gardening, manga, movies, music, naturism, nudism, painting, photography, pole dancing, reading, robotics, shopping, sports, target practice, television, travel, video games, wine tasting, writing
Their Body Type
a few extra pounds, athletic, average, bodybuilder, disabled, fat and proud, fit, large, overweight, pleasantly plump, skinny, slender, slim, supermodel, thick, voluptuous
Movies
comedy, drama, horror, indie, nothing but porn, romance, romantic comedy, sci-fi
Their Ethnicity
African American, Asian, Caucasian, Hispanic / Latino, Indian, Inter-racial, Middle Eastern, Mixed Race, Native American, Other, Pacific Islander, Vulcan
Their Education Level
college grad, currently in college, high school grad, post-Graduate, some college, some high school
Do they smoke?
no - will not date a smoker
Do they drink?
alcoholic, no, socially, wine
They currently live
alone, family and friends visit often, with a significant other, with an insignificant other, with kids, with parents, with pets, with roommate(s)
Socially, they are
better in small groups, comic relief, shy at first, but warm up quickly, side kick, social butterfly
Food Related
Diet Every Now & Then, Eat Out Frequently, Fast Food, Fine Dining, French, Hot Sauce on Everything, Indian, Italian, Japanese, Junk Food Junkie, Mediterranean, Omnivore, Soul Food, Spicy, Vegan, Vegetarian
Personality
activist, conservative, dominatrix, extrovert, fashionista, flirt, fun loving, geek, intellectual, introvert, jock, liberal, loner, lover, nerd, preppy, professional, punk, redneck, romantic, thrifty, tree hugger
Individuality
pirate at heart, psychic, tattoos, beard, cougar, cougar lover, goatee, magician, ninja, nudist, piercings
Miscellaneous
deaf, hard of hearing, HIV+
They are looking for
conversation, dating, friends only, mr. right, penpal, relationship, romance, roommate, soulmate, the yin to my yang, travel companion
Their Sign
aries : march 21-april 19, leo : july 23-aug. 22, sagittarius : nov. 22-dec. 21
Military Service
air force, army, coast guard, marines, national guard, navy, reserves, veteran
Pets
Fish, No pets allowed!, No pets currently (and not interested in any), No pets currently (but like them), Snake
Gender
Male, Not Sure, Transgender
Music
Classical, Dance, Hip Hop, House, Opera, R and B, Ska, Soul, Techno, Trance
Fitness & Sports
baseball, basketball, bodybuilding, cycling, dancing, diving, fencing, football (International), football (U.S.), gymnastics, hiking, hockey, jogging, marathon, martial arts, pilates, pole dancing, rock climbing, rowing, rugby, running, scuba, skateboarding, skiing, snorkeling, snowboarding, soccer (U.S.), surfing, swimming, tai chi, tennis, triathlon, volleyball, walking, weightlifting, working out, wrestling, yoga, aerobics, armchair quarterback
Health Related
acupuncture, therapy
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My Groups(8)
Bondage
3382 membersA group for people who enjoy physical and psychological restraints for sexual pleasure. Activities include tying, binding, and restraining with rope, straps, cuffs, and other objects.
Discipline
2320 membersA group for people who enjoy administering and receiving punishment for sexual gratification. It can include verbal reprimands, spanking, flogging, and other forms of pain and humiliation.
Bottom
1202 membersA group for people who enjoy being the passive partner in a BDSM relationship. It can include activities such as bondage, humiliation, and submission.
Dominant
1677 membersA group for people who enjoy being the active partner in a BDSM relationship. It can include activities such as bondage, humiliation, and domination.
Sadism
981 membersA group for people who enjoy inflicting physical or psychological pain on others for sexual gratification. It can include activities such as spanking, bondage, humiliation, and orgasm control.
Masochism
901 membersA group for people who enjoy receiving physical or psychological pain for sexual pleasure. It can include activities such as spanking, bondage, humiliation, and orgasm control.
Exhibitionist
1055 membersA group for people who get aroused by exposing their body or sexual activities to others. It can include activities such as streaking, flashing, and having sexual encounters in public or semi-private spaces.
Dominatrix
773 membersA group for people who enjoy dominating and controlling others for sexual pleasure. It can include activities such as bondage, humiliation, and role-playing.
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