Hey there, fellow -----ters. Welcome to my profile. I'm a male submissive who thrives in an environment of respect, trust, and mutual understanding. b d s m for me is not just about the physical sensations; it's about the profound connection that comes from power dynamics, vulnerability, and the delicate art of submission. Being a sub is a part of who I am, and I embrace it fully, both in and out of play. I’m here to meet people who are genuinely interested in exploring the intricate dance of dominance and submission.
From an early age, I realized that my natural inclination was to surrender control, to let go of the weight of responsibility, and trust someone else to take the reins. I find freedom in submission, an exhilarating sense of release when I can be vulnerable and give up that control. There’s something incredibly empowering for me in being led, guided, and cared for by a dominant who understands the responsibilities that come with their role. I respect the trust that a dominant has to place in a sub, just as I place that trust in them. It’s a dynamic that requires mutual care, respect, and above all, clear and open communication.
In the world of b d s m, submission can take many forms. For me, it’s about more than just physical acts; it’s about mental and emotional connection. I crave a dominant who not only understands the power of physical touch but also knows how to manipulate the mind. Mental dominance is something that excites me deeply. The psychological aspect of b d s m is as fulfilling as the physical, if not more so. I am drawn to scenarios that challenge me mentally, push my limits, and make me think in ways that are outside of my usual comfort zone.
I am someone who values vulnerability. It’s not always easy to be open about what you want and need, but when you’re able to let your guard down and trust someone completely, the reward is immeasurable. I’ve learned that vulnerability is not a weakness, but a strength, and it’s
Smarter, 28
currently offline
Nairobi, Kenya
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About Me
Gender
Male
Orientation
Straight
Height
6'6"
Weight
80 lbs
Hobbies & Interests
Board games
Body Type
Athletic
Movies
Animation
Eye Color
Brown
Hair Color
Black
Ethnicity
Asian
Relationship
Single
Have Kids
No - do not want kids
Education Level
College grad
Profession
Other
Income level
That's private
Do you smoke?
Hookah
Do you drink?
Socially
I currently live
Alone
Socially, I am
Shy at first, but warm up quickly
Political Views
Conservative
Food Related
Always Dieting
Personality
Coffeeholic
Individuality
Artist
Religious Views
Not Religious, but Spiritual
Miscellaneous
HIV-
I'm looking for
Miss right
My Sign
Gemini : may 21-june 20
Military Service
Marines
Pets
No pets currently (but like them)
Music
Country
Hair Style
Short hair
Fitness & Sports
Rugby
Health Related
Naturopathy
Languages
English
Myers-Briggs®
ENFP
My Preferred Pronouns
Name Only/No Pronouns
Social Justice
All Lives Matter Advocate
Love Language
Physical Touch
Highly Sensitive Type
Fantasy-Prone
High Sensation Seeker
Adventure Seeking
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