Retired, 78

I am a 78-year-old widower, and I was introduced to b d s m in the 1960s, by the girl I later married. Unfortunately, she died in 1996 (28 years ago), and I would like to meet someone who would like to receive the following; Oral sex, full-body massages, having her toes sucked, and her feet gently stroked, being spanked, being told what to wear, and a love of Bondage. I will accept and try to cater for any additional fetishes she may have, but nothing that involves another man. i.e. dogging, swinging, group sex, husband watching etc. My hobby is video and still photography, covering portraiture, scenic, studio, and erotica (with a willing partner). I am very tactile and like to hold hands wherever we go. It would be more of a vanilla relationship when we are among family and friends. Except for my late wife, I have never been anyone's Master, and I do not own anyone. If that is what you want, we would have to agree on various conditions and any violation of those conditions, would be a reason for punishment within agreed limits, but at the moment I regard myself as being the Dominant, nothing more. I would prefer to meet someone who is looking for a long-term/permanent relationship, and I am sorry if this offends anyone, but I do not like tattoos. or facial / body piercings. Also, a lot of ladies have tried (and failed), to scam me out money. Believe me, I can spot you a mile away, and I will always go along with your scam for as long as I can, because that way, while you are trying to scam me, you're not trying to scam someone else. Thank you for reading.