Psiflash, 57

Still searching... I think 'Dom' (dominant) is a bit inflexible and I am going back to my roots or full circles as I once started. I prefer to just BE' label-less. While I have years as Dom, at least I try avoid most of the bad rap a lot of Doms get. Now I just have to kick the bad rap that men in general have. Hah.

I am more interested in the connection (LTR) with someone than on the roles and rules. I don't think it is all black or white but assorted grays, some very pale and others very dark.
Me? I lean Dom; I enjoyed it and it is fun and it is an honor when entrusted with awesome responsibility and confidence. Yet, I like to let someone else drive the car for a while sometimes. I get to see new sights and experience thing i could not otherwise, by exposing myself to them and the point of view of my partner in crime. In either role, the point for me is her pleasure, and from there mine comes forth from that, directly and indirectly.
I am honest and direct, but not easy or simple. More like complex and/or challenging.

I know what I like but remain open and flexible to my opposing force. Respect goes both ways, but I remain laissez faire on what other people do. I guess I am old school in the aspect I am a -------ist and kinstster way more than sadist and very much less a masochist.

I would get along with 95% of the people I met and well liked, and even down right enjoyable if we happen to be in the same frequency of tastes. I do not assume to know everything, but know enough to find what I want and need. And if someone want to show me something I have not learned or experienced, I am humble and open enough to learn from them. And on the other hand if they are curious about what I know and I can share, I am flattered and honored to partake.

What do I seek? Mutual understanding and recognition, perhaps. From there perhaps mutual enjoyment and exploration of the dark corners of each person with no fear.
Here is to mutual exploration and enjoyment with a partner in