Powerpetal, 46

Cuddling, ----- and homemade cakes! In my personal approach to Dominance and sadism, I can be described (and often have been) as:

Strict, Sweet, Caring, Sadist, Cruel, Complex and Attentive

I take all of these words to be compliments!

At the moment I am looking for a long-term relationship with a submissive woman whose need/desire for submission extends beyond the bedroom and into other parts of the relationship as well, and goes beyond a sense of playing a role (roleplay scenes are fun, but I want the relationship to be more than that!) I would probably describe this as more "slave" than "sub" but different people have different associations for those words and I won't be picky over what you want to call it! This does mean that I want to meet someone compatible not just on a kink level but on a 'nilla level as well.

Some of my favourite things to do are baking (see the personal ad title!), music-making and writing (sci-fi/fantasy, and sometimes b d s m a). I keep a blog where I write about personal, political and other thoughts about life (one important aspect is sex-positive feminism - it's a lot better is you are on board with that viewpoint). I like a lot of different types of music, ranging from the silly to the epic and from folk to heavy metal. I also read a lot and love learning new things.

Kinkwise, I'm pretty diverse: although I identify as orientationally "Dom" or "Master", I like to play with the submissive side of the ball as well, and no - I don't think that makes me a "switch", because my identity is Dom, switching is just something I play with (that is, I feel I never stop being a Dom, even if/when I play the role of sub for a little while). I'm also not terribly locked down to a single gender expression. Most -----, I can get into, especially if I know my partner is also into them.