Levia, 43

I have been interested in b d s m since as long as I can recall. I am a switch, I tend to domme with cismen, and switch or sub with women. If I scene with men there is not s----l contact, it's more of me submitting to someone else's sadistic side. I love the sound of a belt,paddle, switch, ect striking my flesh.I am hoping to find female partners to spend time with and engage in mutually enjoyed activities, or a man who is willing and able to abide by all of my limits, but I do find it very difficult to trust men.
I am married, but we are in a poly relationship. I am not looking for a third to join us, if that were to happen, I wouldn't be object, but it's not MY purpose, my purpose here is to find some like minded open minded people.
I have never had any b d s m experience with trans men or women, but I am not object to it, I have just yet to experience that.