As Real As It Gets I do not care for the b d s m "world" to be called a "lifestyle". Being a Master for almost 20yrs is not a "lifestyle" for Me. It's part of Who/What I choose to be, and Who/What I am. It's a BIG part of My life, as I am a Master, 24/7. I do not "play", or have "sessions" with Mine.
It's not a part-time "activity".
I understand what a truly precious gift to be treasured it is, when you give yourself to someOne: body, heart, mind, and soul.
I am not Gorean. I do not damage what's Mine. I'm not about humiliat..., or degradation of what's Mine. I instead prefer to build up My pets, to make them stronger, to better serve Me. Everything I do, is to benefit My pets, for what benefits My pets, benefits Me. I believe in positive reinforcement, spankings as a reward instead of punishment, and doing whatever it takes to eliminate fear.
The biggest liability in any slave, is fear. I alleviate fear through honesty, integrity, logic, and perspective.
There's no need to fear Me. I don't expect you to be perfect, just be perfectly you. I don't expect to change WHO you are, just HOW you do and/or see certain things. "Perspective" is a small word, but can mean soo much.
The MOST important position you can be in (mentally, emotionally, and spiritually; when the physicality isn't feasible): Naked, on your knees in front of Me, without fear, hesitation or reservation, ready and willing to serve Me in any way I see fit.
The MOST important thing you can EVER say to Me: "Thank You, Master".
Any other questions, feel free to ask, but be prepared for an honest answer, as I will not answer any other way.
Trust is not built, it is earned. I do not give My trust freely, nor do I expect you to, either.
Think you have what it takes to earn My trust?
Kursedkreature, 53
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Chattanooga, TN, USA
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About Me
Gender
Male
Orientation
Straight
Height
6'04"
Weight
220 lbs
Hobbies & Interests
computers, dancing, horseback riding, internet, movies, music, reading, target practice, travel
Body Type
average
Movies
action, comedy, drama, horror, romance, romantic comedy, sci-fi
Orientation
straight
Eye Color
gray
Hair Color
blond
Ethnicity
Caucasian
Relationship
open relationship
Have Kids
yes - grown and out of the house
Education Level
some college
Profession
Medical / Health Services, Other
Income level
that's private
Do you smoke?
cigarettes
Do you drink?
socially
I currently live
with a significant other, with roommate(s)
Socially, I am
a couch potato, better in small groups, class clown, comic relief, flirt, the life of the party
Political Views
independent, not interested in politics
Food Related
Carnivore, Omnivore
Personality
clown, extrovert, flirt, frugal, fun loving, geek, intellectual, jock, liberal, lover, nerd, pirate, playa hater, professional, redneck, romantic, tree hugger
Individuality
goatee, piercings, psychic, stache, tattoos, vampire, werewolf
Religious Views
Pagan, Wiccan
I'm looking for
conversation, dating, fun, miss right, miss right now, relationship, romance, something interesting, soulmate, the yin to my yang
My Sign
virgo : aug. 23-sept. 22
Pets
No pets currently (but like them)
Gender
Male
Music
Alternative Rock, Celtic, Classical, Country, Death Metal, Folk, Funk, Hard Rock, Heavy Metal, Industrial, Jazz, Jazz-Fusion, Metal, Pop, Post Rock, Progressive Rock, Rock
Fitness & Sports
dancing, walking, armchair quarterback, bowling
Health Related
alternative medicine, folk medicine, herbalism, holistic treatment, homeopathy
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796 membersA group for people who enjoy using a rubber or silicone ball gag for sexual pleasure. It can include activities such as bondage, humiliation, and role-playing.
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Crop
388 membersA group for people who enjoy using a riding crop for sexual pleasure. It can include activities such as bondage, humiliation, and role-playing.
Voyeur
941 membersA group for people who get aroused by watching others engage in sexual activities without their knowledge or consent. It can include activities such as spying, peeping, and using hidden cameras.
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446 membersA group for people who enjoy both submitting and dominating in a BDSM relationship. It can include activities such as bondage, humiliation, and role-playing.
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