Kalityn, 39

Primarily I'm seeking a monogamous, affectionate, loving dominant woman.I'm often a painfully shy, sometimes reclusive, blue eyed 30 something submissive man. It is a bit hard for me to trust others, so, submitting and building that trust will happen over time.On the one hand, the thought of a "female led relationship", is pretty hot and would suite me for several reasons, but, the rhetoric and current stuff is kind of "ehhhhhhh?".Look up "female led relationship" and the scale, 1-4 system. Personally fluctuating between "1-2" would be good. "3", only for a set time, and "4" only for 6 days max.The one thing that always turned me off was the whole "this is the way it is going to be" seems a bit too rigid, and the idea of setting down and being "this is the way it is going to be for the next 3-6 months", suites me on a deeper level. I may be an Earth sign, but people forget the Earth is constantly shifting and moving under our feet.