Cyberd4fems, 40

I'm a fit, attractive Domme seeking fit, attractive submissive women for b d s m fun. I have been involved in the lifestyle for over 17 years. Though I no longer switch, I learned much from my experiences as a sub. Submission is a gift that is given, not taken. It's a precious thing that must be nurtured and cared for. All subs are not the same and should not be treated the same. Any Dominant who doesn't understand that doesn't deserve the gift of submission. Respect and trust are the most important part of a D/s relationship, any relationship for that matter, but more so within b d s m. This is my philosophy and my approach. I am seeking a submissive woman that wants to learn and explore and push herself. Someone who is open minded. Someone looking for a safe/sane way to learn.