Coolcalmcontrol, 40

I am new to this but I have a good idea of what I'm looking for. In all honesty I get very "excited" about the ides of having control in the bedroom. I understand it will take a bit to find that but I have time and motivation to try to find it. I still want to be good for my partner and have this be an all out good time for both of us. I just want to find someone that will do the things I want -------- and I've asked some if they would do it, but never got a yes. I also want to do things my partner wants for themselves but I would just still just love to be with the one that won't say a word about what I tell her to do. She will just do it to a t