I'm here to explore and discover. So many nights full of fantasies - hoping, planning, thinking and self-exploration, but until now I've never had the confidence to share my passion and desires with you. I can't believe I've waited so long to take this next step. Hello world!
I spend so much of my day being in control, and so I'm looking for the "one" where I can release control and be at the mercy of others. To feel safe, to feel I'm their total focus and, if I'm lucky... feeling like I can exhale completely and just feel, not to think.
Blackeyedboy, 50
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Cambridge, United Kingdom
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Adventurous, curious and faithful
About Me
Gender
Male
Orientation
Straight
Height
6'0"
Hobbies & Interests
Writing, Video games, Travel, Shopping, Science, Reading, Music, Cooking & recipes, Movies
Body Type
Fit
Movies
Fantasy
Eye Color
Green
Hair Color
Dark brown
Ethnicity
Caucasian
Relationship
Married
Have Kids
Yes
Education Level
Doctorate, Post-Graduate
Profession
Education / Academic Research
Income level
That's private
Do you smoke?
No - open to dating smokers though
Do you drink?
No
I currently live
With a significant other
Socially, I am
Better in small groups
Political Views
Not interested in politics
Food Related
Carnivore
Personality
Artistic, Lover, Nonconformist, Intellectual, Entrepreneur
Individuality
Superhero, Rocket scientist, Artist
Religious Views
Not Religious, but Spiritual
I'm looking for
Conversation, Fun, Penpal, Romance, The yin to my yang
My Sign
Libra : sept. 23-oct. 22
Music
Techno, Alternative Rock, Bluegrass, Dance, Funk, Hip Hop, House, Indie, Opera, Pop, R and B, Trance
Hair Style
Shaved head
Fitness & Sports
Archery, Working out, Running
Health Related
Western medicine
Languages
Chinese, English
My Preferred Pronouns
He/Him/His
Social Justice
All Lives Matter Advocate
Love Language
Words of Affirmation, Physical Touch
Highly Sensitive Type
Sensitive, Fantasy-Prone
High Sensation Seeker
Adventure Seeking
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My Friends
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My Groups(20)
Bondage
3384 membersA group for people who enjoy physical and psychological restraints for sexual pleasure. Activities include tying, binding, and restraining with rope, straps, cuffs, and other objects.
Bottom
1202 membersA group for people who enjoy being the passive partner in a BDSM relationship. It can include activities such as bondage, humiliation, and submission.
Dominant
1678 membersA group for people who enjoy being the active partner in a BDSM relationship. It can include activities such as bondage, humiliation, and domination.
Slave In Training
1094 membersA group for people who are learning and exploring the BDSM lifestyle. It can include activities such as bondage, humiliation, and role-playing.
Slave Wannabe
989 membersA group for people who are curious about the BDSM lifestyle and want to explore it further. It can include activities such as bondage, humiliation, and role-playing.
Submissive
2210 membersA group for people who enjoy being in a passive role in a BDSM relationship. It can include activities such as bondage, humiliation, and submission.
Switch
752 membersA group for people who enjoy both dominating and submitting in a BDSM relationship. It can include activities such as bondage, humiliation, and role-playing.
Versatile
441 membersA group for people who enjoy both submitting and dominating in a BDSM relationship. It can include activities such as bondage, humiliation, and role-playing.
Ball Gag
790 membersA group for people who enjoy using a rubber or silicone ball gag for sexual pleasure. It can include activities such as bondage, humiliation, and role-playing.
Latex
520 membersA group for people who enjoy wearing latex clothing for sexual pleasure. It can include activities such as bondage, humiliation, and role-playing.
Leather
532 membersA group for people who enjoy wearing leather clothing for sexual pleasure. It can include activities such as bondage, humiliation, and role-playing.
Mask
224 membersA group for people who enjoy wearing masks for sexual pleasure. It can include activities such as bondage, humiliation, and role-playing.
Rubber
229 membersA group for people who enjoy wearing rubber clothing for sexual pleasure. It can include activities such as bondage, humiliation, and role-playing.
Shibari
58 membersA group for people who enjoy Japanese rope bondage for sexual pleasure. It can include activities such as bondage, humiliation, and role-playing.
CBT
227 membersA group for people who enjoy Cock and Ball Torture for sexual pleasure. It can include activities such as bondage, humiliation, and role-playing.
Erotic Electrostimulation
293 membersA group for people who enjoy using electrical stimulation for sexual pleasure. It can include activities such as bondage, humiliation, and role-playing.
Pegging
154 membersA group for people who enjoy using a strap-on for sexual pleasure. It can include activities such as bondage, humiliation, and role-playing.
Sexual Roleplay
1463 membersA group for people who enjoy roleplaying scenarios for sexual pleasure. It can include activities such as bondage, humiliation, and role-playing.
Strap On Play
709 membersA group for people who enjoy using a strap-on for sexual pleasure. It can include activities such as bondage, humiliation, and role-playing.
Suspension
210 membersA group for people who enjoy being suspended for sexual pleasure. It can include activities such as bondage, humiliation, and role-playing.
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